On one of the adoption triads I belong to we all were sitting on the edges of our seats. Our administrator had a post from a pastor that knew a Birth Mother, and she had googled her name which in turn showed that her Birth Daughter was searching for her. The Pastor wanted more information, so he did not say who the adoptee was. For almost 1 day, I know that dosen't seem like a long time, but for us it was years! We knew that the adoptee was female, but I knew it wouldn't be me. I think that I will be a mystery for as long as I live.
It is my belief that the word mystery perfectly describes how I feel about being adopted. It is a mystery that I long to solve.
My Birth Parents may never try to search for me and I can live with that. There are so many reasons that they don't want to search. Maybe they are married and never told their spouse about their secret. That is what we were to them. It is a shame that they felt they had to keep us locked up inside and never be let out. I wish that my Birth Family found this site, and would understand that I would never want to cause them any unecessary pain. If they didn't want a relationship I would understand, but just to have the chance to know where I come from would be great.
So for now I remain a mystery.
Friday, March 30, 2007
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3 comments:
Kelly,
Sometimes birth parents don't search because they feel they don't have a right to search. But, they are very receptive to, and usually have a strong desire for, contact and possible relationship with their child.
Laurie
www.unsealrecords.com
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You should take a chance and try to find them most the time those parents wait to be found all help you if you need help public records,zabasearch/adoptee info should be free see if any thing is in your file go for it if they dont want to know you there loss
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